Monday, April 11, 2011
Saturday, January 22, 2011
More: Another View on Sinned Too Much
My dear friend Carolyn read my entry on Sinned Too Much? . It seems that at one point she dealt with similar issues and questions herself, feeling unworthy of His grace and forgiveness. After reading, the Lord lay upon her heart to do her own entry on the subject, Too Bad to be Saved? I invite and urge you to read her entry, done from the perspective of one who has been there. And as always with any entry Carolyn does, well thought out, scripturally sound and full of links for deeper understanding.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Sinned Too Much?
A dear friend of mine recently requested prayer for her father. Seems the gentleman is up in years and in bad health and has never accepted Christ as his Savior. The reason, he feels he has sinned too much. This is burning my heart & soul. So here I am writing my response to this assumption.
If you don't believe in God or you think Jesus is anything other than who He claimed to be, you might as well stop reading now and go on about your business. But if you are at the place where you don't doubt there is a God and you know in your gut there has to be something about this Jesus, this Savior, but you have never accepted His forgiveness and gift of life please stay with me. The Holy Spirit is dealing with you. The Holy Spirit is drawing, wooing, convicting and trying to convince you of your need for Jesus and salvation. And if you, like my friend's father, think you are too bad, too far gone to be cleansed and accepted by God that is a lie straight from Satan's mouth. He knows the Holy Spirit is at work within your heart and he wants to stop you from responding to it. This entry is for you. May God bless my feeble efforts and use them to His Glory.
Years ago, I was privileged to sit in a study led by missionary Bill Hayes. Bro. Hayes had made a list of all the excuses Satan puts in peoples minds to cut off the work of the Holy Spirit and had gone on to look up scripture to refute and reprove every single one. As I read my friends request, I knew that "sinned too much" was one of these. My old, worn out Bible has the trail of scripture marked out so that one could easily guide someone through these words. So what I have to say here, draws in great part from those scriptures but the three main points I am making here come straight from the heart cry the Spirit lay upon me as I thought about her request.
44 For I am the Lord your God. You must consecrate yourselves and be holy, because I am holy.
God is Holy. That means he is set apart from us. Apart from sinful, fallen man. He is pure, clean and righteous. Holy. As a Holy God, he cannot be around sin, part of sin, look upon sin. Mankind assigns degrees to sin. We designate the ones that most are likely to commit to be lesser than the ones that fewer of us commit. We say to lie is not as bad as to steal. That to steal is not as bad as adultery. That adultery is not as bad as murder. But EVERY sin, ANY sin set us apart from God. Any sin keeps us from having fellowship with Him.
Romans 3:10-20 (New Living Translation)
10 As the Scriptures say,
“No one is righteous—
not even one.
11 No one is truly wise;
no one is seeking God.
12 All have turned away;
all have become useless.
No one does good,
not a single one.”[a]
13 “Their talk is foul, like the stench from an open grave.
Their tongues are filled with lies.”
“Snake venom drips from their lips.”[b]
14 “Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.”[c]
15 “They rush to commit murder.
16 Destruction and misery always follow them.
17 They don’t know where to find peace.”[d]
18 “They have no fear of God at all.”[e]
Therefore all have sinned and all sin cuts us off from God.
But God in His love and desire to have fellowship with us became man in Christ Jesus and paid the price for our sins on the cross that ALL might come to Him and have everlasting life. When Jesus said "It is finished." upon the cross he meant that God's masterwork, His plan of restoring man to Himself was finished - completed. Jesus paid it all. If we start to say that we have done something that Jesus didn't pay for, then we are calling him a liar. We are contradicting God's own word. If we say that then we are saying Jesus didn't do enough and God is not all powerful.
Luke 18:26-27 (New Living Translation)
26 Those who heard this said, “Then who in the world can be saved?”
27 He replied, “What is impossible for people is possible with God.”
Romans 3:20-26 (New Living Translation)
20 For no one can ever be made right with God by doing what the law commands. The law simply shows us how sinful we are.
Christ Took Our Punishment
21 But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law, as was promised in the writings of Moses[a] and the prophets long ago. 22 We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.
23 For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. 24 Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. 25 For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood. This sacrifice shows that God was being fair when he held back and did not punish those who sinned in times past, 26 for he was looking ahead and including them in what he would do in this present time. God did this to demonstrate his righteousness, for he himself is fair and just, and he declares sinners to be right in his sight when they believe in Jesus.
As to the examples of men who were not "too sinful" for God to forgive and restore, look to David. While king he lusted after another man's wife, had an adulterous affair with her and then conspired to have her husband killed. Yet when he was made to see the magnitude of what he had done and confessed it and called upon God's mercy, God forgave him. He was still used of God and their fellowship restored. In fact the Bible tells us that David was a man after God's own heart.
And there was Paul. Once known as Saul. In his own words:
Acts 26:9-11 (New Living Translation)
9 “I used to believe that I ought to do everything I could to oppose the very name of Jesus the Nazarene.[a] 10 Indeed, I did just that in Jerusalem. Authorized by the leading priests, I caused many believers[b] there to be sent to prison. And I cast my vote against them when they were condemned to death. 11 Many times I had them punished in the synagogues to get them to curse Jesus.[c] I was so violently opposed to them that I even chased them down in foreign cities.
1 Timothy 1:15-17 (New Living Translation)
15 This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”—and I am the worst of them all. 16 But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life. 17 All honor and glory to God forever and ever! He is the eternal King, the unseen one who never dies; he alone is God. Amen.
There you have. A man on a mission to kill and persecute. Directly opposed to God and His plan. Yet he was FORGIVEN and used by God IN his plan!! Paul's missionary journeys did more to spread the gospel to the known world at the time than any others. And he penned 2/3's of the New Testament.
No, one can not sin too much to be forgiven by God. Jesus came not for the self righteous, but for the sinner. One forgiven much is simply more aware of the vibrant new life they have in Him then the one who was forgiven little. Don't hold back my friend. Tell Satan to "shut up" and say "yes!" to Jesus today.
Other "too much" scriptures:
If you don't believe in God or you think Jesus is anything other than who He claimed to be, you might as well stop reading now and go on about your business. But if you are at the place where you don't doubt there is a God and you know in your gut there has to be something about this Jesus, this Savior, but you have never accepted His forgiveness and gift of life please stay with me. The Holy Spirit is dealing with you. The Holy Spirit is drawing, wooing, convicting and trying to convince you of your need for Jesus and salvation. And if you, like my friend's father, think you are too bad, too far gone to be cleansed and accepted by God that is a lie straight from Satan's mouth. He knows the Holy Spirit is at work within your heart and he wants to stop you from responding to it. This entry is for you. May God bless my feeble efforts and use them to His Glory.
Years ago, I was privileged to sit in a study led by missionary Bill Hayes. Bro. Hayes had made a list of all the excuses Satan puts in peoples minds to cut off the work of the Holy Spirit and had gone on to look up scripture to refute and reprove every single one. As I read my friends request, I knew that "sinned too much" was one of these. My old, worn out Bible has the trail of scripture marked out so that one could easily guide someone through these words. So what I have to say here, draws in great part from those scriptures but the three main points I am making here come straight from the heart cry the Spirit lay upon me as I thought about her request.
Here are the three points:
- Sin is sin. ALL and ANY sin separates us from God.
- To say that you've sinned too much denies the finished work of Christ upon the cross and the power of God.
- The Bible is full of examples of terrible sinners who were redeemed and found favor with God.
Sin is sin and God is God. And God is Holy.
Leviticus 11:44 (New Living Translation)
44 For I am the Lord your God. You must consecrate yourselves and be holy, because I am holy.
God is Holy. That means he is set apart from us. Apart from sinful, fallen man. He is pure, clean and righteous. Holy. As a Holy God, he cannot be around sin, part of sin, look upon sin. Mankind assigns degrees to sin. We designate the ones that most are likely to commit to be lesser than the ones that fewer of us commit. We say to lie is not as bad as to steal. That to steal is not as bad as adultery. That adultery is not as bad as murder. But EVERY sin, ANY sin set us apart from God. Any sin keeps us from having fellowship with Him.
Romans 3:10-20 (New Living Translation)
10 As the Scriptures say,
“No one is righteous—
not even one.
11 No one is truly wise;
no one is seeking God.
12 All have turned away;
all have become useless.
No one does good,
not a single one.”[a]
13 “Their talk is foul, like the stench from an open grave.
Their tongues are filled with lies.”
“Snake venom drips from their lips.”[b]
14 “Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.”[c]
15 “They rush to commit murder.
16 Destruction and misery always follow them.
17 They don’t know where to find peace.”[d]
18 “They have no fear of God at all.”[e]
Therefore all have sinned and all sin cuts us off from God.
But God in His love and desire to have fellowship with us became man in Christ Jesus and paid the price for our sins on the cross that ALL might come to Him and have everlasting life. When Jesus said "It is finished." upon the cross he meant that God's masterwork, His plan of restoring man to Himself was finished - completed. Jesus paid it all. If we start to say that we have done something that Jesus didn't pay for, then we are calling him a liar. We are contradicting God's own word. If we say that then we are saying Jesus didn't do enough and God is not all powerful.
Luke 18:26-27 (New Living Translation)
26 Those who heard this said, “Then who in the world can be saved?”
27 He replied, “What is impossible for people is possible with God.”
Romans 3:20-26 (New Living Translation)
20 For no one can ever be made right with God by doing what the law commands. The law simply shows us how sinful we are.
Christ Took Our Punishment
21 But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law, as was promised in the writings of Moses[a] and the prophets long ago. 22 We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.
23 For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. 24 Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. 25 For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood. This sacrifice shows that God was being fair when he held back and did not punish those who sinned in times past, 26 for he was looking ahead and including them in what he would do in this present time. God did this to demonstrate his righteousness, for he himself is fair and just, and he declares sinners to be right in his sight when they believe in Jesus.
As to the examples of men who were not "too sinful" for God to forgive and restore, look to David. While king he lusted after another man's wife, had an adulterous affair with her and then conspired to have her husband killed. Yet when he was made to see the magnitude of what he had done and confessed it and called upon God's mercy, God forgave him. He was still used of God and their fellowship restored. In fact the Bible tells us that David was a man after God's own heart.
And there was Paul. Once known as Saul. In his own words:
Acts 26:9-11 (New Living Translation)
9 “I used to believe that I ought to do everything I could to oppose the very name of Jesus the Nazarene.[a] 10 Indeed, I did just that in Jerusalem. Authorized by the leading priests, I caused many believers[b] there to be sent to prison. And I cast my vote against them when they were condemned to death. 11 Many times I had them punished in the synagogues to get them to curse Jesus.[c] I was so violently opposed to them that I even chased them down in foreign cities.
1 Timothy 1:15-17 (New Living Translation)
15 This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”—and I am the worst of them all. 16 But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life. 17 All honor and glory to God forever and ever! He is the eternal King, the unseen one who never dies; he alone is God. Amen.
There you have. A man on a mission to kill and persecute. Directly opposed to God and His plan. Yet he was FORGIVEN and used by God IN his plan!! Paul's missionary journeys did more to spread the gospel to the known world at the time than any others. And he penned 2/3's of the New Testament.
No, one can not sin too much to be forgiven by God. Jesus came not for the self righteous, but for the sinner. One forgiven much is simply more aware of the vibrant new life they have in Him then the one who was forgiven little. Don't hold back my friend. Tell Satan to "shut up" and say "yes!" to Jesus today.
Other "too much" scriptures:
- Matt. 9:10-13
- John 8:1-11
- Luke 19:9&10
- Romans 5:6-21
- 1Cor. 6:8-10
Thursday, December 30, 2010
High Tech Redneck Mama?
Well, sort of. About the same time I made my post about cell phones and technology, Bubba gave me his old second cell phone. Main reasons being he had a contract for two phones anyway and I travel round trip 63 miles a day. So, yes, I now have a cell phone with me most times I leave the house.
No, I'm not chatting away 24/7. I use it to call home and see if there's anything I need to pick up on the way home. I would use it if stuck in traffic to phone ahead to work or the house and let people know why I'm delayed. I'd use it to call for assistance if I needed it. It's a handy thing to have if Pete & I go somewhere and leave Bug at home, so we can stay connected.
Do I text? I DO NOT text while DRIVING! And if you do, you should stop. It kills. Just as surely as being tanked up on alcohol and driving kills. Once in a blue moon, I do send a text from the phone. But 99% of my "texting" is really IM'ing for me. I talk to folks from my computer on thier cell phones via AIM/AOL. It's the best way to remind Bubba of something or ask him a question when he's at work, because he doesn't have to answer right then, he can wait until he takes a break.
My only living sister, Edna, is 19 years older than me. She doesn't have a computer, but she has discovered texting. She, nor I, will call one another very often, as I am usually at work during the day, and in the evenings we are busy with spouses, etc. Besides, once we get on the phone it's hard to know when to get off. Daddy used to tell Mama "Hell, Jesse Ruth, you could have driven over and sat down with a cup of coffee and visited in the time you spent on the phone." So this texting connection has opened a marvelous way for us to say a few sentences to one another almost every day and feel like we know what's going on with one another, what kind of day we are having and how we are in general.
Moral of the story? Maybe that the kids have a good thing, just not necessarily the best idea about how to use it.
No, I'm not chatting away 24/7. I use it to call home and see if there's anything I need to pick up on the way home. I would use it if stuck in traffic to phone ahead to work or the house and let people know why I'm delayed. I'd use it to call for assistance if I needed it. It's a handy thing to have if Pete & I go somewhere and leave Bug at home, so we can stay connected.
Do I text? I DO NOT text while DRIVING! And if you do, you should stop. It kills. Just as surely as being tanked up on alcohol and driving kills. Once in a blue moon, I do send a text from the phone. But 99% of my "texting" is really IM'ing for me. I talk to folks from my computer on thier cell phones via AIM/AOL. It's the best way to remind Bubba of something or ask him a question when he's at work, because he doesn't have to answer right then, he can wait until he takes a break.
My only living sister, Edna, is 19 years older than me. She doesn't have a computer, but she has discovered texting. She, nor I, will call one another very often, as I am usually at work during the day, and in the evenings we are busy with spouses, etc. Besides, once we get on the phone it's hard to know when to get off. Daddy used to tell Mama "Hell, Jesse Ruth, you could have driven over and sat down with a cup of coffee and visited in the time you spent on the phone." So this texting connection has opened a marvelous way for us to say a few sentences to one another almost every day and feel like we know what's going on with one another, what kind of day we are having and how we are in general.
Moral of the story? Maybe that the kids have a good thing, just not necessarily the best idea about how to use it.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
What's New With You?
Here I sit, realizing how seldom I have updated in 2010. And how long it has been since I made a "newsy" entry for my online friends. Feeling blessed by the Christmas we just had, and hoping that yours was as well. So, I'll start by answering that question myself, and encourage you to do the same in a comment or an entry of your own.
This has been a year of growing, stretching and changing as a family. Rough spots in some places and smooth traveling in others. Individually, as a couple, as a family. I'm still at the same job, for the same pay rate, for the same hours. I've decided I want to invest more time in my blog this year. It's the only true hobby I have and I miss it. I'm reasonably healthy, happier with myself then I've been in ages and rolling with the punches.
Pete's still dealing with a medley of health issues with no positive answers. He slacked up this past year in work he takes in here at home, in large part due to never knowing how he'll feel and what he'll be able to do and people expecting, wanting things done quickly. But also because a couple of folks found it not necessary to pay him for his work. Maybe they think just because he cut them a deal on the price it wasn't hard to do....or they think it wasn't worth anything. But his ex-brother-in-law had us up twice this past summer to his lakeside home for Pete to help him work on his boat dock. It gave us all a couple of wonderful mini vacations. He's still cooking quite often and making delicious meals, preserves and such to share with us, his family and with friends. I think cooking is a real joy to him most of the time, while with me it is often just a chore that has to be accomplished. He raised a beautiful garden this year, but extremely dry conditions yielded us very little to put up.
Bubba has really been full circle! He started his year unemployed and on a down-hill slide. But thank God, he realized where he was headed and came to us for structure and has turned things around. He's working as a mechanic in a local shop. Not the biggest wages he has ever drawn, but good steady work with good people. He met a sweet girl and has since made her his fiance. All of this has seemingly had a calming influence upon him and given him a sense of direction. Why even today they are spending the day down at our old house, working on fixing it up after hurricane Rita and neglect, with an eye toward the day they can begin a life together in the home he began his life in.
There was no deer camp this year for the first time ever since Pete & I were married. Dues for these things are just too high under our circumstances. So we hauled everything from our old camp site home and Pete has set up a "camp" right outside! Complete with his little camper to cook in and the pitcher pump
hooked up for easy, handy water access.
Hannah is blossoming and becoming quite her own unique and special person. Still overall loving, happy and giving. Her grades are optimal and she has a passion for reading
that she nourishes and a flare for writing little short stories. She is very basic and simplistic in what she needs to find comfort or amusement.
Of course the biggest story of the year is her and Pete coming to Christ as their savior. I knew they would, in time, some time. For He had promised it to me. But I didn't know when or how....never expected it to be this year...but that's another story, yet to come.
Now, what is new with you?
This has been a year of growing, stretching and changing as a family. Rough spots in some places and smooth traveling in others. Individually, as a couple, as a family. I'm still at the same job, for the same pay rate, for the same hours. I've decided I want to invest more time in my blog this year. It's the only true hobby I have and I miss it. I'm reasonably healthy, happier with myself then I've been in ages and rolling with the punches.
Pete's still dealing with a medley of health issues with no positive answers. He slacked up this past year in work he takes in here at home, in large part due to never knowing how he'll feel and what he'll be able to do and people expecting, wanting things done quickly. But also because a couple of folks found it not necessary to pay him for his work. Maybe they think just because he cut them a deal on the price it wasn't hard to do....or they think it wasn't worth anything. But his ex-brother-in-law had us up twice this past summer to his lakeside home for Pete to help him work on his boat dock. It gave us all a couple of wonderful mini vacations. He's still cooking quite often and making delicious meals, preserves and such to share with us, his family and with friends. I think cooking is a real joy to him most of the time, while with me it is often just a chore that has to be accomplished. He raised a beautiful garden this year, but extremely dry conditions yielded us very little to put up.
Bubba has really been full circle! He started his year unemployed and on a down-hill slide. But thank God, he realized where he was headed and came to us for structure and has turned things around. He's working as a mechanic in a local shop. Not the biggest wages he has ever drawn, but good steady work with good people. He met a sweet girl and has since made her his fiance. All of this has seemingly had a calming influence upon him and given him a sense of direction. Why even today they are spending the day down at our old house, working on fixing it up after hurricane Rita and neglect, with an eye toward the day they can begin a life together in the home he began his life in.
There was no deer camp this year for the first time ever since Pete & I were married. Dues for these things are just too high under our circumstances. So we hauled everything from our old camp site home and Pete has set up a "camp" right outside! Complete with his little camper to cook in and the pitcher pump
hooked up for easy, handy water access.Hannah is blossoming and becoming quite her own unique and special person. Still overall loving, happy and giving. Her grades are optimal and she has a passion for reading
that she nourishes and a flare for writing little short stories. She is very basic and simplistic in what she needs to find comfort or amusement.Of course the biggest story of the year is her and Pete coming to Christ as their savior. I knew they would, in time, some time. For He had promised it to me. But I didn't know when or how....never expected it to be this year...but that's another story, yet to come.
Now, what is new with you?
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Autumn in the Piney Woods of Southeast Texas
That signature crisp feel in the air. The deeper blue in the sky at night. Cooler, darker mornings that make you wish you could spend your life snuggled down in bed. It's been here, and then backed away as if trying to decide whether to proceed or not. Autumn came on the calender near the end of September and it has been flirting with us in reality ever since. Today I thought I'd share some of the rich beauty of our local autumn with you in a few pictures.
There you have it! This is at the top of the hill headed into the Jack Gore Baygall unit of the Big Thicket National Preserve. Looks very similar to the foliage in spring and summer. By nature, our woods are made up mostly of pine, cedar, holly and oak. The live oak keeps leaves all year. So all year round you have green. No eye catching, breath taking color here. The exact tint of green changes to a degree, but there is no flaming red or brilliant orange.
But we do have the bright sun shinny yellow hues of the rag weed in most every square inch of land left to stand idle. Which the brisk fall breezes pick up pollen from and deliver to our noses so that suddenly, "God bless you!" is the most often heard phrase around. (Wonder if we said it more often without the sneezes if God would curb the ragweed for us?!) Thanks to this plant, when we open our windows and try to save on the electric bill as the humidity finally slides below 70%, we awake in the night to find ourselves feeling as if we are drowning in drainage and arise in the morning to nauseated stomach. Benedryl
sales skyrocket.
We do have a sprinkling of pale yellow that sweeps through in some spots that are populated with sycamore, sweet gum or pecan. The green fades out to that pale yellow and then quickly turns to brittle brown as the leaves float down and pad the ground. Of course that cursed plant that came here from abroad and cannot be successfully rooted out, the talla tree does have the redeeming trait of bringing us our only reds and crimsons to be found on the horizon. I have always wanted a red maple
planted in the yard, just so I could enjoy the bright fall color it would yield. But, alas, we've never gone and purchased one. Perhaps one of the children might make a Mother's Day gift of one next year. When I'm old and feeble they can wheel me out and sit me in front of it and amuse me for hours.
Simply put, if you want the splendor of fall foliage, Southeast Texas is not your place to get it. Stick to New England. But if you love Texas like we do, you just enjoy the cooler, less humid air and anticipate that first cool front cool enough to kill off the mosquitoes.
My friends and followers, the past two months since I last posted has been a busy, hectic time it seems. We had the thrill of Pete and Bug each committing to Christ and following in Baptism! But we also had the sadness of the departure from this world of a life long and good friend, Shot Walker. I want to declare now that I plan to be flying in the blogosphere much more often in the weeks ahead. So come by, get a cup of coffee and sit down by the fire.
sales skyrocket.
planted in the yard, just so I could enjoy the bright fall color it would yield. But, alas, we've never gone and purchased one. Perhaps one of the children might make a Mother's Day gift of one next year. When I'm old and feeble they can wheel me out and sit me in front of it and amuse me for hours.Simply put, if you want the splendor of fall foliage, Southeast Texas is not your place to get it. Stick to New England. But if you love Texas like we do, you just enjoy the cooler, less humid air and anticipate that first cool front cool enough to kill off the mosquitoes.
My friends and followers, the past two months since I last posted has been a busy, hectic time it seems. We had the thrill of Pete and Bug each committing to Christ and following in Baptism! But we also had the sadness of the departure from this world of a life long and good friend, Shot Walker. I want to declare now that I plan to be flying in the blogosphere much more often in the weeks ahead. So come by, get a cup of coffee and sit down by the fire.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Not Old: Fortunate
Recently read a post entitled Wanna Feel Old? Read the Beloit College Mindset List. . While I can't say that it actually made me feel old, it did make me reminiscent of an era that has passed. My thinking ran and ranged from childhood memories, to my own experiences with technology, to my children's and their friends' craving to be instantly connected to one another 24/7.
When Pete & I married we bought a brand new Curtis Mathis TV
that came with a new VCR, free for a year. At the actual time we got it, there were no stores in our town at which to rent a movie. We had to make 25 min runs to a nearby larger town to rent VHS tapes. Needless to say, we didn't use it much at first. But before the year was over, there was a video rental store at the end of our road. We used it more, our free year ran out, they wanted $1000 for it, so we said thanks but no thanks. Four or five years later we bought one second hand.
In that case we were ahead of the crowd. Other times we've lagged behind. In the 90's Windows and the www started spreading all over. Average folks were buying computers, going online. In 2004, Pete brought home our first computer. A second hand one from where he worked, running Windows 98. We knew nothing about PCs. Turned out it had no sound card, no modem and only a 3gig hard drive. Now, we have almost 6gigs of music alone on our PC! But it gave us our first glimpse of the www and gave Bubba the Office tools he needed for high school.
Phones. When Pete and I married we were on a 3 party-line with rotary. Within just a few years we were the only ones on the party line, but our rates were locked in. We never upgraded to touchtone, just to keep our party line. Once, when Bubba was small, a man from AT&T called trying to get us on caller I D. Well, that would mean upgrading and more $ per month. And as interesting as it might be we didn't really need it. And I had a hard time making him understand why we didn't need it. In fact, he got down right mad at me. The conversation went something like this:
Him: With caller ID, you'll know who's calling.
Me: I'll know as soon as I answer.
Him: But, you'll know before you answer and won't have to talk to them if you don't want to.
Me: If I don't want to talk to them, I'll just say so and hang up.
Him: If you miss a call, you'll know it.
Me: So?
Him: If it were important you can return it.
Me: If it's important, they'll call back.
He didn't make his sale. We moved later and with new service lost our party line rate, and while all new installs are touchtone, we still have NO extras at all on our line. Our phone bill is approximately $25 a month...what's yours?
A couple more background tales, and then I'll proceed with what I came here for.
I remember when Bubba was in grade school we were going to be gone for the Thanksgiving holidays to our deer camp
. One of his little friends asked him what the phone number was there. Bubba told him there was no phone. As their conversation continued, this little fellow couldn't imagine that we were going to a place with no phone, no running water, no electricity. Just coal oil, firewood, butane and crickets.
A few years later when he was in Jr. high, some of my co-workers were decrying the $100+ they were having to spend on their students shoes. They couldn't believe Bubba wore $20 Wal-Mart shoes. I explained my reasoning; one, his feet were still growing. Two, he was very rough on his shoes. Third, his daddy earned his living in a pair of $120 Red Wing work boots
....there would never be a day I'd spend more on his shoes than the ones that provided for him.
Now, I'm getting around to it. Bubba reached high school. More and more friends had cell phones. Once again, there was no need, no point in him having one that we could see. There was a pay phone in the school lobby. If it were a crisis the office would call. To and from school he was on the bus. Then he was at home where we have our highly dependable land line.
Eventually, Bubba worked enough and made enough at odd jobs and on breaks that he had his own spending money. At first he used a lot of it to buy camouflage and other higher priced clothing. Then he got into car stereos, amps and speakers. Once he had his job at the feedstore and steady income, he got himself a cell phone
. Bully for him! That's fine. I have played with it and used it to make pictures to use on the computer before we had a digital camera
. We have borrowed it when we were going on a long trip and calls back to home would normally be long distance. There's times we've been worried about him and found it reassuring to call and know what was going on. After the hurricanes, he had service before we had our land line back.
Technology in and of itself is neither good nor evil. I believe God gifted man with intellect and skills to think, design, and craft things to help him explore his world, solve problems he encounters, etc. But as Bubba reached his later teen years, my heart has cried for him and his friends and this whole must be instantly connected every moment of the day generation. They rob themselves, cheat themselves, and often hurt one another with the likes of cell phones, texts, im's, MySpace, Twitter and such.
They assemble together in twos or in groups. There they are, face to face. Time together with a good friend, a date, their buddies. But they are constantly interrupted and caught up in outside contacts via their technology. Conversations aren't as deep as they could be, there's no time to just chill and share silence together.
They make mistakes like every generation. They hurt a friend, break-up, etc. They make unkind comments, a joke goes too far. There's anger. They have no time to be alone and reflect. To cool down. To feel sorry. To miss someone. To think for themselves without constant input from other persons and sources. To pray. To cry.
I feel fortunate because I know what it is to wonder for hours or days if he really liked me. That I've had time to kick, scream, cry, calm down and see things from someone else's point of view. I've had long, rambling conversations with friends and family without distraction. I've had the excitement and anticipation build to a fever pitch waiting to share good news or a surprise.
I'm thankful that my children, though they may use social media far more than I ever have, have also experienced life lived slowly. May their souls remind them of that when they need to unplug, wind down, recharge.
When Pete & I married we bought a brand new Curtis Mathis TV
that came with a new VCR, free for a year. At the actual time we got it, there were no stores in our town at which to rent a movie. We had to make 25 min runs to a nearby larger town to rent VHS tapes. Needless to say, we didn't use it much at first. But before the year was over, there was a video rental store at the end of our road. We used it more, our free year ran out, they wanted $1000 for it, so we said thanks but no thanks. Four or five years later we bought one second hand.In that case we were ahead of the crowd. Other times we've lagged behind. In the 90's Windows and the www started spreading all over. Average folks were buying computers, going online. In 2004, Pete brought home our first computer. A second hand one from where he worked, running Windows 98. We knew nothing about PCs. Turned out it had no sound card, no modem and only a 3gig hard drive. Now, we have almost 6gigs of music alone on our PC! But it gave us our first glimpse of the www and gave Bubba the Office tools he needed for high school.
Phones. When Pete and I married we were on a 3 party-line with rotary. Within just a few years we were the only ones on the party line, but our rates were locked in. We never upgraded to touchtone, just to keep our party line. Once, when Bubba was small, a man from AT&T called trying to get us on caller I D. Well, that would mean upgrading and more $ per month. And as interesting as it might be we didn't really need it. And I had a hard time making him understand why we didn't need it. In fact, he got down right mad at me. The conversation went something like this:
Him: With caller ID, you'll know who's calling.
Me: I'll know as soon as I answer.
Him: But, you'll know before you answer and won't have to talk to them if you don't want to.
Me: If I don't want to talk to them, I'll just say so and hang up.
Him: If you miss a call, you'll know it.
Me: So?
Him: If it were important you can return it.
Me: If it's important, they'll call back.
He didn't make his sale. We moved later and with new service lost our party line rate, and while all new installs are touchtone, we still have NO extras at all on our line. Our phone bill is approximately $25 a month...what's yours?
A couple more background tales, and then I'll proceed with what I came here for.
I remember when Bubba was in grade school we were going to be gone for the Thanksgiving holidays to our deer camp
. One of his little friends asked him what the phone number was there. Bubba told him there was no phone. As their conversation continued, this little fellow couldn't imagine that we were going to a place with no phone, no running water, no electricity. Just coal oil, firewood, butane and crickets.A few years later when he was in Jr. high, some of my co-workers were decrying the $100+ they were having to spend on their students shoes. They couldn't believe Bubba wore $20 Wal-Mart shoes. I explained my reasoning; one, his feet were still growing. Two, he was very rough on his shoes. Third, his daddy earned his living in a pair of $120 Red Wing work boots
....there would never be a day I'd spend more on his shoes than the ones that provided for him.Now, I'm getting around to it. Bubba reached high school. More and more friends had cell phones. Once again, there was no need, no point in him having one that we could see. There was a pay phone in the school lobby. If it were a crisis the office would call. To and from school he was on the bus. Then he was at home where we have our highly dependable land line.
. Bully for him! That's fine. I have played with it and used it to make pictures to use on the computer before we had a digital camera. We have borrowed it when we were going on a long trip and calls back to home would normally be long distance. There's times we've been worried about him and found it reassuring to call and know what was going on. After the hurricanes, he had service before we had our land line back. Technology in and of itself is neither good nor evil. I believe God gifted man with intellect and skills to think, design, and craft things to help him explore his world, solve problems he encounters, etc. But as Bubba reached his later teen years, my heart has cried for him and his friends and this whole must be instantly connected every moment of the day generation. They rob themselves, cheat themselves, and often hurt one another with the likes of cell phones, texts, im's, MySpace, Twitter and such.
They assemble together in twos or in groups. There they are, face to face. Time together with a good friend, a date, their buddies. But they are constantly interrupted and caught up in outside contacts via their technology. Conversations aren't as deep as they could be, there's no time to just chill and share silence together.
They make mistakes like every generation. They hurt a friend, break-up, etc. They make unkind comments, a joke goes too far. There's anger. They have no time to be alone and reflect. To cool down. To feel sorry. To miss someone. To think for themselves without constant input from other persons and sources. To pray. To cry.
I feel fortunate because I know what it is to wonder for hours or days if he really liked me. That I've had time to kick, scream, cry, calm down and see things from someone else's point of view. I've had long, rambling conversations with friends and family without distraction. I've had the excitement and anticipation build to a fever pitch waiting to share good news or a surprise.
I'm thankful that my children, though they may use social media far more than I ever have, have also experienced life lived slowly. May their souls remind them of that when they need to unplug, wind down, recharge.
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