I'm
the black sheep of the family. I'm the little Baptist girl that
learned to adore dancing. My first experience with dance was with my
daddy at our house on 1122. He taught me to waltz. 1-2-3, 1-2-3.
I
adored it! Another early experience with dance was at a Bluebird
sleepover at a friend's house. Her daddy taught us to jitterbug.
(Thanks Danny)
Then
there was the big middle school talent night. Me and five other
girls got together. They choreographed a dance to Elton Johns'
Crocodile Rock. I was really too introverted at the time to be up
there, but I did it. I still remember most of that dance! That's 40
years!
Little
Baptist girl has no opportunities to dance, to fly. Flash forward
high school and a crazy gym teacher that had us do yoga one semester
and square dance the next. I actually enjoyed it, though some of it
was dorky. We worked our way up from called dances that anyone could
learn to do to the Virginia Reel. I was paired with Gaye Drake for
that dance. The music started....and we just took off! No thought
involved. We just knew what to do. The teacher was so impressed we
had to split up and try to show all the others what we were doing.
I
only went to two dances in all of high school. No steady boyfriends,
no one I wanted to go with usually. Though they were nice guys, they
weren't natural dancers. And I felt lost on the floor with them.
Fast-forward
to college orientation at SFA. What do you think they had planned
for the mixer? Square dance! I was the only one in our set who knew
what she was doing, leading the way.
Occasionally
I went to a club in college and danced. But that was usually just
disappointing.
When
I came home from college, The Palace was in it's hey day. I started
going. And I found there were fellows there that knew what they were
doing....that knew how to lead! Urban Cowboy had started a two step
craze. But I did it all.....from YMCA, to the waltz.
A
young man who had been a class or two behind me in high school and
won “best dancer” superlative and I teamed up several times just
to dance the night away.
Then
one New Year's eve I met Pete. He danced with me while Glenn and
Connie played. But he didn't dance. It takes a lot of cajoling to
get him to even dance me around the house. If I could change one
thing about my hubby....that would be it.
There
is nothing so romantic as twirling and swaying with a man you truly
love on a wooden floor with low lights and fans twirling above your
head.
Now,
I dance by myself in my kitchen. I dance babies around. Times
change and that's how it should be, I reckon.
What
about you? Did you ever love to dance? Tell me about it!
Dancing is probably my most favorite thing to do. I used to live in Portland, where one could find several kinds of dances to go to on any given night. Now I live in a very small town, and my fiance and I are learning to dance together via youtube videos. You're right, times do change...
ReplyDeleteLove that the two of you enjoy dancing together! That's beautiful.
DeleteI wish I could dance....I never learned growing up but I guess I am old enough now that I don't care how I look on the dance floor, lol.
ReplyDeleteYou, know, I think that is one wonderful thing about getting older: other peoples oppinions seem to matter less and less. As long as you are okay with it, and God is okay with and maybe Hubby is okay with, anything is fine. How much time, worry and heartache do younger folks waste on worrying about what others think?!
DeleteHubby doesn't dance here either... I'll get up and embarrass the boys every so often, lol, and hubby likes to see me dance... I remember freshman year in high school, my friend and I dared each other to ask the boys we liked to dance the next slow dance, and I did it, heart pounding all the way...
ReplyDeleteFavorite movie: Footloose... :)
Highlight of Bubba and Candi's wedding for me was dancing to Conway Twitty's "After the Good is Gone" with my son at thier reception.
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