Friday, November 17, 2006

WOW!!

                                              

Imagine my surprise and delight to come in from work and find that I am one of this week's guest editor's picks!!!   Blow me over with a feather! 

Robin from Random Threads is this week's guest editor, and she chose me as one of her newer reads she's been enjoying.  To me, that says a lot.  Says she felt welcome and at ease here.  I hope you all feel the same!  ;o) 

(Graphic and Tag by Donna.)

Thursday, November 16, 2006

So, I was Thinking...

My sister gave me one of those calendars that give you a thought for the day and a verse.  The one for Monday said "There are two freedoms --- the false, where a man is free to do what he likes; and the true, where a man is free to do what he ought." (Kingsley)

The false:  A very self centered freedom.  Me.  My way.  What I want, need right now.  The consequences be damned.  No true right or wrong.  A whole wide range of grey area.   Free to cause pain and wreck havoc.  Leading up to a wide path of destruction behind and a very rude awakening in the end.  A heavy load of extra burdens to drag along as a result.  Ending in regret, disappointment. 

The true:  Freedom based in caring and morality.  Kind.  Compassionate.  Brave.  What's best for me and everyone involved.  Doesn't go against my conscience, heritage, the law or the Bible.  Pretty much black and white.  Leaving behind everything a little better than it was before, looking forward to a prize.  Fond memories and feeling of accomplishment to carry with you.  Your worth recognized by those who know you.  A satisfied mind.  A content soul.

Maybe it's just me....but seems that the false kind is what is prevalent here in America today.  It's the driving force behind so many hot button political issues.  It's wrapped up in high divorce rates, fraud, greed, pornography, and many other ills.  A cheap imitation of real freedom. 

So, I've thought about it and now I leave you to think about it. 

In other news, Paul has done it again!!  Posted the links for CarnivAOL, that is.  I submitted the previous entry.  And there are a number of others of all various shapes and sizes.  Exercise your freedom to browse and read this week. 

And somehow, Paul and I got to discussing laundry via e-mail.  How hard it can be to keep up with it and all of that.  And that got me wondering: 

Where do you go to get clean clothes to put on, most often?

Leave an answer in the comments or email me (bhbner2him@aol.com)  one and I'll post the results.

 

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Could YOU live in Caneyhead?

As I wonder around J-land and meet folks from all around the world it is apparent that we just live a little differently than the rest of ya'll.  When I go to work in Beaumont, TX...it is apparent that even all fellow Texans don't do things like we do at home.  Why even in town (10 miles south of us) they don't do everything like we do here in our little community of Caneyhead.  It makes for some hilarious conversations. 

In the interest of understanding, I have compiled an original list of things that we ourselves have done or regularly do in our life here in Caneyhead.  Enjoy.  Hopefully chuckle.  And see if you could live in Caneyhead. 

If you go barefoot more than with shoes on...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you have ever shot an armadillo with a 12 gauge by dawn's early light in a silk tap pant set....
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you generally purchase used vehicles in twos, one to drive and one for parts...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If your weekly feed bill equals or exceeds your weekly grocery bill...
                  you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If a loose hog has ever been the reason you were late for work...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you own more off road vehicles than on road vehicles...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If eating healthy means switching to 2% milk from whole milk and frying only one dish per meal in canola oil instead of hog lard...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you say you need a pie crust                  and you still get out shortening and flour...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you can't get from your house to the highway without picking up mud or dust on your truck...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you have a $2,000 stereo system in your $1,500 truck...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you can't figure out how to make the walk/don't walk sign at the crosswalk change...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If your seven year old daughter has only recently ever eaten in a restaurant with menu's that are handed out by a waitress at the table...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you save the plastic bags from Wally world and the grocery store to line your small trash cans with...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If the official school bus stop is actually a compressor station...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you still identify callers by answering the phone instead of checking a caller I D display...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If camping still involves coal oil and firewood...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If, when you realized you had no hamburger buns,you put your bacon cheeseburgers on hot dog buns (baconcheesedog's)...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you've ever been to a hog scrapin'... 
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you let your neighbors know their music is too loud, too late by raining shot down on the tin roof of their party shed...
                                        you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If three consecutive shots fired means "send help this way" to you...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you kitchen sink has ever been on your back porch...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you know how many square bales of hay fit in the trunk of an Oldsmobile...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If corn pickin', tator diggin' or cracklin' frying are family social events...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you spend more money on deer season than all the other holidays combined...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
If you have an 800+ lb hog named after your father...
                                         you could live in Caneyhead.
 
 

Friday, November 10, 2006

Tidying Up Loose Ends

Both Nat and Penny are asking us to write about what we are thankful for this month.  Gracious!  The list would be too long.   All the people God has blessed me to know in my life.  My salvation.  My reasonable health.  The man I've shared my life with for nearly 23 years.  Two smart, healthy, loving, beautiful children.  Extended family....the ones that love me and even the ones that merely tolerate me.  The beauty in this world.  The nation in which I reside and those that defend it. 
 
But, as I grow older the thing that stands out to me more and more is the heritage that my parents, aunts and uncles passed to me.  The heritage of a Christian family.  Of staying together, of doing what is right, of helping and kindness.  Of hard work and responsibility.  I see that this is the springboard from which most of every other blessing in my life has sprung.  It is the promise of God and it is true!  My prayer is that I am doing it justice in my attempt to pass it on. 
 
And then Canyonsun04 and Pharmolo were looking back to what was posted on their journals a year ago.   Made me curious about my own self.   Seems I had just posted my last entry about Hurricane Rita, which was a list of acts of kindness displayed throughout the aftermath.
 
Then I posted what is probably my favorite of the entries I ever made, in response to some questions about faith that Stacy had posed.   It was the first time I ever tried to express what faith meant to me, was to me.
 
And there was a rambling entry about the value of journals, and responding to Paula asking about Pig Stand restaurants.  Shame to say the one on Calder has had to close.  Seems some taxes weren't paid.  May be goodbye to an era.
 
I also put my two cents in on the advertisements in AOL Journals issue that cost us some talent and friends among us here in J-land.
 
Nat has hit us with the question of why we hang out in J-land.  I first started browsing around online, looking to find female, Christian fellowship.  In my search, I found a large Christian web-site with a message board on which so many posted questions they should have known the answer to if they ever bothered to open their Bibles.  I felt lead to find a place to post encouragement.  For everyone, but focused toward women.  While starting up here in J-land I found such warmth!!  It has become a very symbiotic relationship for me.  Or at least I pray it is. 
 
Lastly, I want to say Congratulations to all who won awards in the VIVI's!  It means a lot to know your peers enjoy and appreciate your work.  Everyone here fills a place, a niche.  Some touch many, some only a few profoundly.
 
I will be posting soon a comedic piece, entirely original.  Do hope you will all drop by to check it out, and hopefully enjoy it.
 
  Barbara  
(More of Emma's gifs.)

Sunday, November 5, 2006

Some Truth Hid in Humor

If The Earth Were a Small Village
If we could shrink the earth's population to a village of 100 people, with everything else remaining the same, it would look like this:

There would be:

* 57 Asians
* 21 Europeans
* 14 from the Western Hemisphere,
* 8 Africans,

* 52 would be female
* 48 would be male

* 70 would be non-white
* 30 would be white

* 70 would be non-Christian
* 30 would be Christian

* 95 would be heterosexual
* 5 would be homosexual

* 6 people would own 59% of the world's wealth, and all 6 would be from the United States

* 80 would live in substandard housing

* 70 would be unable to read

* 50 would suffer from malnutrition

* 1 would be near death
* 1 would be near birth

* 1 would have a college education

* 1 would own a computer

* 0 would play oboe
Money
It can buy you a House,
But not a Home.

It can buy you a Bed,
But not Sleep.

It can buy you a Clock,
But not Time.

It can buy you a Book,
But not Knowledge.

It can buy you a Position,
But not Respect.

It can buy you Medicine,
But not Health.

It can buy you Blood,
But not Life.

It can buy you Sex,
But not Love.

So you see, money isn't everything. The best things in life can't be bought, and often we destroy ourselves trying!

I tell you all this because I am your Friend, and as your Friend I want to take away your needless pain and suffering...

So send me all your money and I will suffer for you.

A truer Friend than me you will never find.

CASH ONLY, PLEASE
Jokes from Arca Max.  See sidebar for link. *  Graphics by Emma.

Thursday, November 2, 2006

Confused? Need Answers?

                        

The upcoming elections and recent headline news has stirred up all the old, familiar questions once again about life issues such as stem cell research, abortion, euthanasia & bio ethics.   So when does life begin?  How long does it hold it's value?  What is the science behind the issues?  Is the mainstream media and info accurate and fair? 

Does your heart cry to stand for Jesus, but your mind spin on how to accomplish that?  What would Jesus do?  Or are you a non-Christian trying to understand what all the hullabaloo is about? 

Carolyn of  No Apologies - Biblical perspectives on world events has created a journal to try to mainstream all pertinent information on matters such as these from a Pro Life Christian point of view in one concise location.  Whether you are merely curious or confused, A Matter of Life, contains information and links to help you.

And whatever else you do, please pray about your decisions on candidates before you vote.

      

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

That's a Great Idea!

  I went over to a new journal ... well, new to me, yesterday and was very pleasantly surprised!  There I met a young man named Kellen.  He is a Senior in high school and apparently passionately devoted to Christ Jesus and to his faith...Catholicism. 

Now, many of you may gather, if you have read me for very long, that I am of a Protestant denomination.  So, I readily admit there is much I do not know or understand of Catholicism.  But, what I read and saw at Kellen's journal I do know:  a belief in the body and blood of Christ to cleanse us from all sin and a calling to prayer as His disciple.

This dear fellow has a wonderful idea of praying for our country, world leaders, world peace and each other.  He has a plan set up in such a way that he can accomodate Catholics in the Eucharist and others in their own daily time of devotion and prayer.

Please go over and check this out at Faith in Roman Catholicism!  It is a wonderful opportunity on many levels:  support a young Christian in service to their Lord, encourage a fellow journaler, be involved in a wonderful prayer initiative, and perhaps learn more about your own or another religion.

Graphic from christiansunite.com 

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