tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post6641230278521182151..comments2024-02-10T02:29:29.558-06:00Comments on Life & Faith in Caneyhead: I Saw it on FacebookBarbara In Caneyheadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06053601327400989802noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-32589763850429573692017-05-11T12:55:15.888-05:002017-05-11T12:55:15.888-05:00Every time I lose a friend I wonder if something i...Every time I lose a friend I wonder if something is wrong with me. And I worry about all of my other remaining friends – will they stay? Do they see something wrong with me too?<br /><br />As to FB, specifically, I hate it. I'm really only on there for blog promoting. I don't get along with any of my family and friends on there. And I'd rather just not see their updates at all.<br /><br />It may be all well and good to just turn the other cheek, but I can say it's really hard to do that when you know someone is being rude because they don't like you … or when they are doing something that you know is wrong and will hurt many yet they don't care. That can be really frustrating. Of course, sometimes that's when these people need to be shown love the most.<br /><br />*sigh* Relationships are complicated. :)<br /><br /><a href="http://aandj8804.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">With Love</a>,<br />MandyMandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00415510811585368037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-70169553030710270682017-05-06T14:35:12.166-05:002017-05-06T14:35:12.166-05:00Barbara,
My intimate circle of friends is so smal...Barbara,<br /><br />My intimate circle of friends is so small you can count on one hand, so there's little to no drama. I don't think FB is the place for it anyhow and it floors me to see how that goes on and people act like it's purrfectly normal. I don't have room in my life to worry with someone not liking me. It's their right to do so. I won't lose sleep over it especially if it's someone not in my close circle. Of course, like you when I was younger this would've torn me up. I do want people to like me because let's face it, what's not to like? lol Seriously, people did to take a chill pill and realize we all can't be the same but to find common ground to remain friends or good acquaintances. Life is just too short to worry who likes who and what I can do to fix it. :)<br /><br /><a href="http://curiousasacathy.com</a>Curious as a CathyCathy Kennedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01738079671642137018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-24743024660984044982017-05-04T15:18:59.067-05:002017-05-04T15:18:59.067-05:00I do spend a 'bit' of time worrying about ...I do spend a 'bit' of time worrying about those who don't like me. But I can let go of it just as quickly. I like these "I saw it on Facebook" posts!Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406717262345866373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-49044203938293062372017-05-03T01:38:59.834-05:002017-05-03T01:38:59.834-05:00This comes at a timely moment for me because I jus...This comes at a timely moment for me because I just noticed two friends--actual friends and former colleagues--had unfriended me on FB. It worries me. Did I do something to offend? I can't imagine what.<br /><br />Of course I'd love for everyone to adore me, but I know life isn't like that. Still, if a friend dumps me, I go crazy when I have no idea why.J.H. Moncrieffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045467689291025137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-71205139675861999162017-05-02T20:17:27.316-05:002017-05-02T20:17:27.316-05:00I know I'm a good person so sometime I do wond...I know I'm a good person so sometime I do wonder why they don't like me. I try not to let it consume me though. Good post.Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04007728342316668058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-84515199126918166172017-05-02T19:18:50.114-05:002017-05-02T19:18:50.114-05:00Great, thoughtful post, Barbara! The older I get t...Great, thoughtful post, Barbara! The older I get the less I care about people that don't like me. I try to be kind and polite to everyone, but there are always one or two folks in life that just seem to like keeping things stirred up a bit. I no longer waste my time and energy on that. I guess you could say that I've learned to set boundaries. But yes, I've also learned somethings about myself that needed a little improving too, I tend to keep to myself and sometimes friends grow weary of waiting for me to "come out and play". I'm trying to work a little harder on keeping up my end of communications. :-) We always have room for improvement, but if we love someone we'll keep working at it. :-)Josie Two Shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18388032819905416258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-21444202793691751842017-05-02T18:31:18.012-05:002017-05-02T18:31:18.012-05:00Not much anymore. I know we just don't click a...Not much anymore. I know we just don't click and that's all right. Like you said, focus on those who do like us.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-30669064752060947252017-05-02T17:14:28.092-05:002017-05-02T17:14:28.092-05:00As with you, being disliked bothered me a lot more...As with you, being disliked bothered me a lot more when I was younger. Occasionally in recent years, someone has stopped being in touch with me, and I try not to dwell on it, although it does bother me when I don't know why.The Silver Foxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00730805376957629641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941371995600376751.post-85805109080042947132017-05-02T15:45:28.687-05:002017-05-02T15:45:28.687-05:00I don't have a large circle. I don't have ...I don't have a large circle. I don't have patience for people who don't want to like me.Liz A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16531953467834426316noreply@blogger.com